Let me just say, again, that my friends are awesome. I can't stress that enough these days. I can talk to about 5 girlfriends and a few guys about anything. They all represent different parts of me, it seems, and they each specialize in different areas of life. I would be lost without them. Sometimes just relating to them is enough. It reassures me that rain or shine, we are all in this together.
I look at my other girlfriends that are technically unattached, and I realize that some guys are just idiots. :) Seriously, these girls are amazing--smart, attractive, driven, down-to-earth, talented, kind--and any guy would be lucky to have them. They meet someone practically every time they go out. Of course, these girls won't take just "any guy," but sometimes even the ones they want won't make the effort. They know that those guys should not be worth the trouble, but somehow it does not make things easier. He will either come around or he won't, and she may or may not be available when he makes a decision. Who knows? By the time he realizes how much he cares about her, she could be waking up next to the guy that already knew. Those are my girls, and they shouldn't have it any other way.
The song in my head now is "Irreplaceable" by Beyonce:
You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute (baby)
You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin'
You're irreplaceable
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