Monday, December 21, 2009

20 Things Every Woman Should Do Before She Gets Married (supposedly)

I recently came across this little countdown, and although I'm not getting married anytime soon, I can confidently cross all but 2 or 3 of these things off of my list:

"With 11 days left until my wedding, the final countdown is in effect. Among the dozens of little things left on my to-do list, I’ve been thinking a lot about the things crossed off my to-do list long before I met my husband to-be — things that have made me a well-rounded, experienced woman ready for a lifetime commitment to another person. After the jump, 20 things every woman should cross off her list before getting married.

  1. Live by herself for at least a year.
  2. Live with someone else for at least a year.
  3. Recover from a broken heart.
  4. Have a vacation fling.
  5. Take a road-trip with a group of girlfriends.
  6. Relish sleeping in a queen-sized bed by herself.
  7. Get her finances in order.
  8. Learn to love her body.
  9. Have sex with at least one person she’d never want to marry (or introduce to mom).
  10. Find reliable birth control.
  11. Pay off as much credit card debt and student loans as possible.
  12. Spend way too much on a something frivolous.
  13. Exorcise all past relationship demons.
  14. Travel somewhere exotic.
  15. Establish a strong circle of friends.
  16. Forgive her parents for not being perfect.
  17. Have at least one night she can’t quite remember.
  18. Experience some really bad first dates.
  19. Find hobbies that fulfill her.
  20. Celebrate her 25th birthday."
Hooray for life experiences!

3 comments:

Rosie K Ski said...

Hmm. Can't say I agree with all of these. Not into vacation flings, blackouts, screwing people who I know ahead of time are scary or a waste of time... But I do agree with the concept. Get done growing up first. :)

jweezy said...

Ha yeah, well I'm not looking to check those off of my list, anyway.

crazywriter84 said...

I actually have a lot of those covered. But I have a problem with so many being about vacation. One vacation one is important, but why so many?